The marriage of Joshua Henkin - A review and an interview with the author

Josh Henkin Julian Wainwright, is the main character in what is a moving portrait of Mia and Julian Wainwright marriage and all that entails. All the emotional turmoil in a marriage could be filled with infidelity, suspected to be expected, and the loss is in the marriage of Julian to Mia. Julian plans to change for the perfect life when he discovers that must face reality. Learn what life is all of us, and as our plans change, sometimes quite fast, but not as oftenbut constant, determines what really happens in our next life well planned. These plans can produce both positive and negative results.

met at age 13, Julian writer John Cheever, and from that point on, all Julian wants to do to write. He attended Graymont College, for his excellent writing program, where he is known, one of four newcomers, the story follows the coming decades. One, the course is Mia Mendelsohn in Montreal. Their story is a book to beginInstant attraction and love. Also in the group Carter Heinz, a scholarship all the way from California, is probably the most talented group of writers, and even the poorest financially. Carter tried, but often just can not control the jealousy he feels against Julian, because the wealth of Julian is happy to be born. These feelings cause for Julian Carter almost missed an opportunity for a truly wonderful friend. Carter's girlfriend turns Pilar, theQuartet. Pilar parents are lawyers and will follow in their footsteps. The failures and successes of the two couples are so well over the years by Henkin news.

As Julian struggles that he knows only a writer, he may be, they discover that Mia's mother is ill. Things are in motion to be made as decisions for them now appear. My mother wants to have breast cancer and Mia decides she really, Julian, before their mother dies, he marries. And so, undermarried right after graduation, he moved to Julian to follow as Mia continues her education. Their travels take them from his hometown of New England College in the Midwest as a post-graduate work in psychotherapy Mia. While Mia is the Julian school teaches some courses and to write about. Finally, the wind in New York. With each train, and each year of marriage, Julian and Mia find ancient secrets coming out and her marriage to the point of the testDestruction.

Julian goes to Berkeley to see Carter graduated from Law School. company Carter, who founded a software start-ups, is now in the millions. Carter's wife, her lover and his colleagues divided. So the two friends meet to discuss the good old days, and Carter, talking about an alleged secret slip out accidentally. At this point, the way in which this story takes to win, if Julian and Mia to a position on this next hurdle. Along with thisMia discovers she has the same gene in breast cancer, and her mother, the story is changing again in a different direction, as a priority.

Henkin makes writing for an account in the right atmosphere so that the reader is involved with the story in September The characters are real and the reader can identify with them, believe in them, and above all, care for them. What happens with the knowledge gained and the Battle Julian My face is what this story brings to itsbreathtaking conclusion. Marriage is a pleasant read, well-written, relatable story.

The man behind the marriage, Joshua Henkin, (JH) Author
(Live interview by telephone from KH)

I recently had the honor to interview the author of matrimony, Joshua Henkin, phone book for my blog. It 'was friendly and open, and a pure joy to talk to. He is an inspiration and I am jealous of his creative writing students, who may come to learn from him. This interview was personallytranscribed by me, and all changes, errors or the wrong form, this is my fault is strictly including all grammar and punctuation, but how do you write an informal discussion on how we? I tried to describe exactly what Joshua said that you feel the call I get was privileged to have with him.
KH: What is the next book or you are currently working on?

JH: My next book is late and is called the world without her and her new novel .... due toThe publication of a long ago and I extended my getting the nomination. The marriage lasted ten years to write, this is a hope to take less of me, but I'm probably over 175 pages and I think that would be a few years, but hopefully it will be as good as can be.

KH: I read that if your computer, and broke his hand to writing, I thought it was very interesting.

JH: (Laughs) Yes

KH: What did you just read, or haveTime?
JH are: When I am in the midst of a novel by Roxana Robinson called COST, and I think it's a great book and I like their work in general. She is a great story too short ... I just received a review copy of the mail ... seemed very interesting for me. You know, I teach creative writing to spend much time reading my students are working ....
... Next on my list is a book called the guest room by Helen Garner. She is an Australian writer and ... and a really great bookStories I just read recently is called mother and sons by Colm Tobin, an Irish writer and ... a truly amazing book of stories.

KH: Where do you teach creative writing?

JH: I teach mostly at Sarah Lawrence College and a bit 'in graduate program at Brooklyn College. At Sarah Lawrence, I am teaching students and undergrads and MFA at Brooklyn College MFA students only.

KH: What makes you started a new book? A character or a story or idea ....?

JH: Yes, its veryhard to say, I mean certainly for me, the character is in the heart of fiction, as when I read a novel, what I want at the end of the book is not necessarily with similar characters, because there are so many great novels , in which the characters are not particularly sympathetic as Richard Yates' Revolutionary Road and Martin Amos work, but I think a good novel, one feels at the end of a book that you know the characters as good as or better than the people in your life and so, if a book is thatto me, if I had, in fact, as the writer made me read, and that's what I try to do as a writer and ... and so the character is of central importance to me, but I think that is the relationship between action and character .... symbiotic both of us to create our own stories and are created by them.

So in thinking of terms of character, I'm trying to better my characters in a situation where something is at stake is set, great can happen ... --- Before I started I always start with the idea, but I ----marriage started with the first three words, "Out, out out" and would be the idea of the novel about a love affair, and was held at a college reunion. It is a love relationship, even if they have other things and it's coming, but not a meeting of the college, on page 270 and requires only six pages. It soon became clear to me that I have no idea, and I think the really important that they actually hinder the know too. So start withCharacter, and now I put them in situations and I can see where I go, but is basically the characters are developed incrementally ... You do not know until you write to me his plan for the blind before and then again back trouble should try and understand how to make it more consistent.

KH: Yes, I read, where until recently in this blog that she had said in writing that first draft, you have, how to get rid of the control,and, above all new authors must be appropriate, as in a dream state to write and not keep control just cause can never go beyond the first chapter.

JH: And not just new writers, and I think almost everyone on it.

KH: What is something about you, you people want us to know about you probably do not know? ... Or maybe it is something there?

JH: (laughs) Something about me to know that I, ummm you want in relation to writing?

KH: InCompared to all ... It could be your favorite ... ice cream

JH Actually, I'm not a big fan of ice cream in general, I prefer salty to sweet, and I prefer sorbet ice cream more ... and I do not like chocolate, the great dismay of my wife and two daughters.

KH: Oh my goodness .... Well, let's see ... They were born in Brooklyn?

JH: I was not. I was born in Manhattan and lived there for the first 18 years of my life and then I spent a year between highSchools and universities in Israel and then I went to college. I was in college at Harvard. I left the Bay Area for four years. After that I lived in Berkeley in San Francisco, and then I lived 8 years in Ann Arbor and moved to New York and Brooklyn in the last nine years. The only exception was last year when I lived in Philadelphia for the year because my wife is a teacher and had a scholarship to Penn, so we moved down to Philly for a year and I was Commutinghere for the orders book and teaching.

KH: What is your best advice for everyone, including young people, as I was the sixth class will be taught the writer?

JH: I would say that I have two suggestions. The first is the most important thing to do is read. To read, you know, deep and wide. I think the best training for writers is a different job. A lot of people think, a kind of thanks to Hemingway, the way is to become a writer, to run with the bulls in Pamplona or believe that the modernThe version would be to travel to Nepal. And they are perfectly good things to do, but if I recommend a student of mine, was the study had, and he said: "I have a trek in Nepal or in years I could take a year to read the classics. What should I do if I want to become a writer? "I certainly choose the second option.

I think Flannery O'Connor said that anyone who has lived the age of ten years, has enough material to write a long life. So I think this is an erroneousWhich means you have to do the type to write crazy things in an unusual way. And I do not think that is true. I think you live, but you must read and part of life is reading. It would be the first council. For the second piece of advice do not wait for inspiration, if you write, write and must be regarded as a work and carve-out, and you know, write as often as possible. For me it's really, I mean that is such a thing as a talent, butFor me it is really of effort and perseverance, and to rewrite and revise as much as anything else.

KH: I think that's right, because I write all I know now, I say that to me ... I write at a given time, and nothing should come between, and my writing. Hopefully I'm at that point, but I'm still not over it yet.

Matrimony by Joshua Henkin - A Review and an Interview With the Author

Josh Henkin's Julian Wainwright is the major character in what is a poignant depiction of Mia and Julian Wainwright's marriage and all that entails. All of the emotional upheaval one might expect in a marriage filled with infidelity, suspicion, and loss, is found in Julian's marriage to Mia. Julian's plans for the perfect life change as he finds he must face reality. He learns what life gives each of us, and how it changes our plans, sometimes rather quickly, but more often than not, rather steadily, determines what really happens next in our well planned existence. These plans can produce positive as well as negative results.

At the age of 13, Julian meets author John Cheever and from that point on, all Julian wants to do is write. He attends Graymont College, known for its excellent writing program, where he becomes one of four freshmen who the story follows for the next few decades. One, of course is Mia Mendelsohn from Montreal. Theirs is a story book start with instant attraction and falling in love. Also in the group is Carter Heinz, a scholarship student all the way from California, who is probably THE most talented writer in the group, and also the poorest financially. Carter tries, but often just can't control the jealousy he feels toward Julian, because of the wealth Julian is lucky to be born into. These feelings toward Julian cause Carter to almost miss an opportunity for a truly glorious friendship. Carter's girlfriend, Pilar, completes the foursome. Pilar's parents are lawyers and she wants to follow in their footsteps. The failures and successes of these two couples are chronicled so well by Henkin over the next few years.

While Julian struggles to be the writer he just knows he can be, they find out that Mia's mother is ill. Things are set in motion as decisions seem to be made for them at this point. Mia's mom has breast cancer and Mia decides she really wants to marry Julian before her mother dies. And so, having married right after graduation, Julian moves to follow Mia as she continues her education. Their travels take them from their New England college town to one in the Midwest as Mia's postgraduate work is in the field of psychotherapy. While Mia is in school, Julian teaches some courses and continues to write. Eventually, they wind up in New York. With each move, and each year of marriage, Julian and Mia find old secrets coming out and their marriage is tested to the point of destruction.

Julian goes to Berkley to watch Carter graduate from Law School. Carter, who has founded a computer software start-up company, is now worth millions. Carter's wife, and college sweetheart, have split up. So the two friends get together to talk about the good old days and Carter let's a supposedly unintentional secret slip out. At this point, the path this story will take is up for grabs as to whether Julian and Mia will be able to get over this next hurdle. Along with that, Mia finds out she carries the same breast cancer gene that her mother did and the story goes once again in another direction as priorities change.

Henkin's writing makes for a moving account set in just the right atmosphere that keeps readers involved with the story. The characters are real and the reader can relate to them, believe in them, and more importantly, care about them. What happens with the knowledge Julian learned and the battle Mia faces, is what brings this story to its stunning conclusion. MATRIMONY is an enjoyable read and beautifully written, relatable story.

The Man Behind MATRIMONY, Joshua Henkin, (JH) author
(Live interview via phone by KH )

Recently, I had the honor of interviewing the author of MATRIMONY, Joshua Henkin, via phone for my book blog. He was friendly and open and a pure joy to talk with. He is an inspiration and I am jealous of his creative writing students who get to learn from him. This interview was personally transcribed by me, and any changes, mistakes, or form that is incorrect is strictly my fault including all grammar and punctuation but how do you transcribe a casual discussion like we had? I tried to transcribe exactly what Joshua said so one would get the feeling of the conversation I was privileged to have with him.
KH: What is the next or current book you are working on?

JH: My next book is over due and it is tentatively called THE WORLD without you and its another novel....due to publisher a while ago and I've gotten my deadline extended. Matrimony took me 10 years to write, this one is hopefully going to take me less but I've got probably about 175 pages and I think its going to be another couple of years but hopefully it is going to be as good as it can be.

KH: I read where when your computer broke; you went to writing by hand which I thought that was extremely interesting.

JH (laughing): Yes

KH: What have you just finished reading or do you have time?
JH: Right now I am in the middle of a novel by Roxana Robinson called COST and I think it's a terrific book and I really like her work in general. She's a great short story writer also...and I just got a review copy in the mail...it looked very interesting to me. You know I teach Creative Writing also so I spend a lot of time reading my students' work....
...Next on my list is a book called THE SPARE ROOM by Helen Garner. She's an Australian writer...and actually a terrific book of stories that I've just read recently is called MOTHER AND SONS by Colm Tobin, an Irish writer...a really amazing book of stories.

KH: Where do you teach creative writing?

JH: I teach mostly at Sarah Lawrence College and a little bit in the graduate program at Brooklyn College. At Sarah Lawrence I teach MFA students and undergrads, and at Brooklyn College just MFA students.

KH: What gets you started on a new book? A character or story idea or....?

JH: Yeah, its very hard to know, I mean I certainly for me character is at the heart of fiction like when I read a novel what I want at the end of the book is not necessarily to like the characters, because there are plenty of great novels where the characters aren't particularly likable like Richard Yates' REVOLUTIONARY ROAD or Martin Amos's work but I think in a good novel you feel at the end of a book that you know the characters as well as or better than the people in your own life and so if a book does that to me when I read than in fact the writer has done well by me, and that's what I'm trying to do as a writer...and so the character is central to me but I think that the relation between plot and the character is symbiotic ....we both create our stories and are created by them.

So in thinking of terms of character, I'm usually trying to set my characters in a situation where something's at stake, something big can happen...I started MATRIMONY---I basically start with no clue----but I started MATRIMONY with the first three words "out, out, out" and with the idea the novel would be about a love relationship and it was taking place at a college reunion. And it is about a love relationship although it's about other things and there is a college reunion but it doesn't come until page 270 and lasts for only six pages. So pretty early on it was clear to me that I didn't have a clue and I think that really important that it can really hamper him in knowing too much. So I start with character and I place them in situations and I see where I go from there but it's basically the characters get developed incrementally ... you don't know them until you actually write them so to me its about being blind for the first draft and then about going back once you have this mess and trying to figure out how to make it more coherent.

KH: Yes, I read where just recently in that blog that you had said that writing that first draft that you have to, you kind of let go of control, and that especially new writers should write kind of like in a dream state and don't keep reviewing just cause you may never get past the first chapter.

JH: And not just new writers, everyone and I think most strongly about that.

KH: What is something about you that you would want people to know about you that we probably don't know?...or maybe there isn't something?

JH: (he laughs) Something about me that I want you to know, ummm, you mean in terms of writing?

KH: In terms of anything...it could be your favorite ice cream...

JH: Actually I'm not a big fan of ice cream in general I prefer salty to sweet food, and I tend to prefer sorbet to ice cream...and I don't like chocolate, to the great horror of my wife and two daughters.

KH: Oh my goodness....well, let's see... were you born in Brooklyn?

JH: I wasn't. I was born in Manhattan and I lived there for the first 18 years of my life and then I spent a year between high school and college in Israel and then I went to college. I was at Harvard for college. I moved out to the Bay area for 4 years. After that I lived at Berkley in San Francisco, and then I spent 8 years in Ann Arbor and moved back to New York and have been living in Brooklyn for the last 9 years. The only exception being last year when I was living in Philadelphia for the year because my wife is a professor and she had a fellowship at Penn so we moved down to Philly for a year and I was commuting up here for book stuff and for teaching.

KH: What is your best advice to anyone, including young people since I teach 6th grade, who want to be writers?

JH: I would say that I have two pieces of advice. The first, the most important thing to do is to read. To read, you know, deeply and widely. I think the best education for writers is other work. A lot of people think, sort of thanks to Hemingway, the way to become a writer is to run with the bulls in Pamplona or I guess the modern version would be to hike in Nepal. And they are perfectly good things to do but if I had advice to an undergraduate student of mine who was graduating and said to me, "I could take a year hiking in Nepal or I could spend a year reading the classics. Which should I do if I want to be a writer?" I would certainly choose the latter.

I think that Flannery O'Connor said that anyone who has lived to the age of ten has enough material to write about for a lifetime. So I think there is a mistaken sense that you have to sort of do crazy, unusual things in order to write. And I don't think that is true. I think you have to live but you also have to read and part of living is reading. That would be first piece of advice. For the second piece of advice, is not to wait for inspiration that if you want to write you have to write and you have to treat it like a job and carve out time and, you know, write as frequently as you can. To me, it's really, I mean there is such a thing as talent, but to me it's really about effort and perseverance and rewriting and revision as much as anything else.

KH: I think that's right, because I know any little bit of writing that I do now, I say that to myself...that I have to write at a specific time and nothing should come between that and my writing. Hopefully, I am getting to that point but I'm not at it yet.