For many people, the perception of foreplay is kissing and petting.
Nothing could be more wrong. Foreplay consists of pre-foreplay, non-linguistic communication (including body language), and acts and deeds which are intended to evoke a response from a potential sexual partner to proceed to intercourse.
Learning what foreplay is, how to execute it will be your key to sexual success.
Foreplay is Not Exclusive to Men
Women also must resort to foreplay, and often do in subtle but highly evocative ways.
They often will touch a man's hand while speaking, wet or bite her lips while the man speaks, invade the man's private space, and other feminine guiles that are just part of their arsenal of foreplay techniques.
Pre-Foreplay
The man who is excited, enamored, or highly desirous to be a woman should consider well the period known as pre-foreplay.
The women, unless incredibly naïve, will understand the pre-foreplay moves and respond to them. Very
good and effective examples of pre-foreplay are:
o Small gifts, only trifles, but appropriate to a situation.
o Gifts of flowers, but only roses that have a wonderful and entrancing aroma.
o Discover something of your expectant partner. Give it her, at a very appropriate minute. This will show her your sensitivity and even intellect.
o Remembering every woman is concerned about her "nesting" responsibility, be to her eyes a prospective nest partner.
o At a diner, order correctly. Refrain from heavy foods that can destroy the mood of love. It's not banal to order oysters, and champagne.
It is good foreplay.
For dessert, order for yourself some sorbet, but for her, something that is sinfully sweet and tasty; such as cream filled profiteroles, with chocolate syrup. Finish the diner with a digestive drink, perhaps an expensive cognac. If she doesn't drink, suggest a short espresso.
Watch the Body Language
The woman (or man) may be talking to you without words. This is called non-linguistic communication.
The woman can play with her hair, bite her lips, or sometimes gaze into your eyes for a moment, as if to search for something. She is saying "your foreplay is working".
Continue by invading her personal space.
Perhaps the woman put her hand on your arm while she was talking, or even brushed her leg against your (seemingly accidentally). All these are signs. You must be observant and see what her body is saying.
Return, carefully any intimate gesture.
When Does Foreplay Begin?
It really varies from couple to couple, but you can assume if one of the two of you has invaded the personal space of the other, and the reaction was not negative, foreplay as begun. It's now time for a dance if appropriate, or holding a hand during some moment of a conversation.
Sealed with a Kiss
If the foreplay has moved into the kiss, the serious foreplay has begun. Kissing is one of the most intimate gestures between people.
You share even your breath, and the sensation of a kiss can thrill the whole body. Learn to kiss well, or don't kiss at all. Kissing is foreplay's calling card, and the opening moves are now over.
Time to move into more serious foreplay actions, which are discussed further in other articles in this series.
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